Wednesday, October 26, 2011

How can i help my friend?

Hes always been shy but he used to actually wanna do stuff. He would always go outside and come hang out every weekend and we'd go places and skate and go to people's houses and stuff. But them i moved, and 1 1/2 years later i moved back, and hes totally different. he'll rarely go outside, and if he does its for a half hour max. he won't go to anyones house, talk to any new people(especially girls). i just asked him if he wanted to go to the beach tomorrow and he said no. who wudnt wanna go to the beach? idk whats changed him so much, it might be because he got a laptop, so he can be entertained without leaving his house now. hes also grown out his hair way too long and has worse acne now, making him much less attractive than he used to be. i mean idk what it really is, but can anybody give me tips on how to start changing him into a fun, social person with some confidence instead of a loser who doesn't do, or want to do for that matter, anything?
How can i help my friend?


Play a little game called prison with him... he won't be shy no more when you sell him for a crumb cake...its really fun... a family classic
How can i help my friend?
Just be there for him. Play computer and see what he's interested in, he probably just has bad self esteem so treat him well, without being overly nice so he doesn't think your fake. He might be picked on at school so just don't ask him about things that make him uncomfortable. If you have a cute friend to introduce him to, it might be nice to let him know what she thought (or didn't think) such as %26quot;Oh my friend Leslie thinks your really nice%26quot; Then invite him to do something with you two. Like I said if it doesn't work just... be..there...for..him! He'll thank you when he gets out of whatever faze he was going through, make sure to tell someone if he seems really depressed though, someone you trust like a parent. Just be a good friend and I hope whatever it is passes soon. Boys are hard to get he's probably just going through something so just wait it out and be nice. Good luck!
Try to be around him as much as possible. He needs a friend's guidance or else he'll proceed in his habits. Try your best to get him out of his house. At the same time givve him some space. Don't follow him too much but be sure you watch him at least ;D Good luck!
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