Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Do we have an appropriate relationship?

Ok so me and my group of friends are all 15 and we hang out all the time. Lilly, Zach, Marina and me. Marina isn鈥檛 my girlfriend but we flirt a lot a don't exactly have what you might call %26quot;boundaries.%26quot;

I mean once me and my friends were at Soak City and Marina was in a bikini and I was like %26quot;Wow Marina your boobs are huge! Seriously, could your chest get any bigger? Marina smiled seductively and struck a sexy pose. No one thought it was awkward or anything.

After swimming at the pool or the beach I can change with the girls if I want. They don't mind! Zach has done that too, but not as often as I do. They don't even care if I look at their bodies! I've seen Marina and Lilly naked! It didn't bother them. Sometimes Marina and I hang out alone, and yeah, we still change together, no problem. She even told me her bra size, 36 D, when I asked. She had no problem with it.

Once we were hanging out and play fighting when I playfully reached out, grabbed her boobs, and squeezed them. She didn't slap my hand away, but just giggled and leaned in close, like she liked it. I do that sometimes now, when we're wrestling and stuff I'll just pin her down, put my hands down her tank top, clench them on her breasts, and just start rubbing them. Whenever I do this Marina laughs and calls me a pervert, but she lets me do it for as long as I want. This happened one time while we were changing to go swimming at my house. I wasn鈥檛 wearing a shirt, and she didn鈥檛 have a top or bra on. We started wrestling, I took her shoulders and gently pinned her to the wall, and then took her naked boobs in my hands. She was laughing and crying (from laughter) as I massaged her bust.

But as far as I know, we鈥檙e just flirty friends. Nothing more.

But anyways, regardless whether I鈥檓 Marina鈥檚 boyfriend or her friend I'm just wondering: Is our relationship healthy? Is it appropriate for our age(15)?
Do we have an appropriate relationship?
she likes you..or is just a very horny girl...she probably wants to takes things further
Do we have an appropriate relationship?
um no.
wow yeah so id say probably not. you might want to make it official that your dating or just stop altogether. what if you get a girlfriend but still grab marina? i don't think things will go well with your new girlfriend. things should probably change between you and marina
If I said to you that what you are doing is great and very appropriate, what would you think of me? I think you know this is wrong. And I'm wondering if it even happens. I think you want to astound us with your graphic description of a lusty situation.



I think this is something you have read about. If this is really happening, you need to make a a complete turn and walk the other way.