Looking for a good hair salon to visit in this area. I hate changing stylist and not knowing how well they can cut/color beforehand can end up in disaster. Looking for color and highlights and a good cut.
Any recommendations on a good Hair salon to go to in the Cocoa Beach/Orlando area?
I would highly recommend the Mychael Peters Salon in Orlando. I used to live in Orlando and that's the salon I frequented. They are amazing. They are located across from Lake Ivanhoe on 'Ivanhoe Row' which is physically located on Orange Ave. in downtown Orlando.
Hope that helps!!
Thursday, September 15, 2011
Looking for free software to play with photo's like putting a dogs head on someones body?
looking for web site to put a person on a beach or changing pepole's looks
Looking for free software to play with photo's like putting a dogs head on someones body?
www.gimp.com
it is THE answer to your question!
Have fun!
Looking for free software to play with photo's like putting a dogs head on someones body?
it's not free but Photohop is THE program for stuff like that and so much more.
google's program is free, get itfrom here:
http://www.sleekbytes.com/search_the_web鈥?/a>
Hi, I recommand you to try google picasa.
picasa is a Google's photo software. It's what should've come with your camera.
It can Edit , organise and Share you picture and small video flips.
It's very easy to use and is free, just like Google
Download it free in here:
http://www.adcenter.net.cn/google-picasa鈥?/a>
Good Luck!
Looking for free software to play with photo's like putting a dogs head on someones body?
www.gimp.com
it is THE answer to your question!
Have fun!
Looking for free software to play with photo's like putting a dogs head on someones body?
it's not free but Photohop is THE program for stuff like that and so much more.
google's program is free, get itfrom here:
http://www.sleekbytes.com/search_the_web鈥?/a>
Hi, I recommand you to try google picasa.
picasa is a Google's photo software. It's what should've come with your camera.
It can Edit , organise and Share you picture and small video flips.
It's very easy to use and is free, just like Google
Download it free in here:
http://www.adcenter.net.cn/google-picasa鈥?/a>
Good Luck!
How can i go to the beach why on my period?
i am going to the beach today with my sister and some friends and i got my period this morning :( i have tampons and i know how to use them but we will be at the beach all day. what should i do? i cant just change my tampon at the beach
How can i go to the beach why on my period?
Wear tampons and change them in the bathroom.
Most beaches have public bathrooms....
How can i go to the beach why on my period?
There should be porta potties of some sort there where you could change a tampon. But I do suggest staying out of the water. The blood could attract many unpleasant things depending on where you're at. Everything from barracudas (that bite but aren't deadly) to snakes and even sharks.
just go to your knees in the water sharks are attacked to blood but yeah change at a restroom tampons are great i%26quot;m on my period right now to :(
How can i go to the beach why on my period?
Wear tampons and change them in the bathroom.
Most beaches have public bathrooms....
How can i go to the beach why on my period?
There should be porta potties of some sort there where you could change a tampon. But I do suggest staying out of the water. The blood could attract many unpleasant things depending on where you're at. Everything from barracudas (that bite but aren't deadly) to snakes and even sharks.
just go to your knees in the water sharks are attacked to blood but yeah change at a restroom tampons are great i%26quot;m on my period right now to :(
How do you get changed on the beach?
I worked as a lifeguard in Ireland for a while, and got to see a lot of people getting changed! Some would go to enormous lengths to make sure that nothing showed, others (mainly men, but some women), would just get naked and put on their swimsuit, and various stages inbetween. It seemed to make little difference how ``fit'' the person was, or how old they were (provided they were past their teens). I tend to strip to my underwear and then wrap a towel around myself for the last stage. What do you do.
Please say whether you are male and female and where you are from. I am female from the UK.
How do you get changed on the beach?
Female, from the U.K. I take a large towel and wrap it around me and wriggle around, but if it falls away and something shows, I don't stress out about it.
How do you get changed on the beach?
Hi,
i would change into my swim wear in the nearest toilet,
and just put on a t shirt and shorts over the swimwear,
But when changing to go home i would either go and get changed in the toilet or if the swimwear was dry just put my clothes over it.
Being disabled it is easier for me to do it this way.
(Female)
It depends on what I am wearing and where I am going. I try to wear my suit under my clothes and then just take off my clothes and my swim suit is underneath. If we are going someplace before hand then I will bring my suit with me and then change. Either way, when I come out of the water, I take my suit off and change right there on the beach. If I am wearing a two piece or topless, I start with my bottoms, dry quickly and then dress. If it is a one piece then I just take it off, dry quickly and get dressed. I lay my suit out to dry and figure if you don鈥檛 want to see me then don鈥檛 look.
Female in the US.
same as you, female in England :)
i am female and i usually go in to the toilets to get changed.
Male, Thailand. I do the same you do exactly.
Umm..I don't. I go in my bathing suit already on with a coverup over it and leave the same way.
I am too old to bother about what anybody thinks of me, so I would just strip and get on with it and feel sorry for anyone who looks!! I am Scottish, and we don't get the weather to stip off much, but I am surprised a lifeguard would even notice. You mucky sod. xx
I didn't know they had beaches in Ireland ????? Beaches that you would swim at that is !!! Going to be beach I would wear my trunks under my normal clothes, and they I could just take off normal clothes and already have my trunks on. To come off the beach I would have to use a towel or something to change behind, would not just get obviously naked to change. I am a male from USA. Of course if there was some kind of toilet or changing building that would be used, but the nature of your questions presumes that is not an option. With the value of the dollar dropping, may have to consider nude beaches since swiming suits may soon be unaffordable.
male, just do it in front of em, or if ur shy wrap a towel around your waist and just do it iside the towel
wrap a towel around you dry yourself and the put your underwear on then shorts or trousers and then you should be fine
I go to the beach house or change in the truck.
If I'm on holiday, I'll just wear my bikini underneath my clothes and wear a beach dress! That way, all I have to do is whip my dress off - no hassle!
I suppose if my bikini was wet from swimming, I'd just put my beach dress back on and then take the bikini off from underneath my dress with minimum fuss - replacing the bikini with a nice dry strapless bra and nice dry pants!
Some people make life difficult for themselves :-)
xx Emmie
oh, female UK!
It depends on who is about. If I feel I can get away with it (i.e. no too many young kids or leering men!) I just whip the clothes off my bottom half and put on my bottoms, and then take off my top
half, and put on my top. Once a couple of years back when I went to put on my top I found I had forgotten it, so I went topless for a while (I do this regularly when we go to France) and no one seemed bothered, and since then I've never been particularly bothered about people seeing my boobs when I am changing, it makes life a lot easier!
Female from Ireland.
A towel joined end to end. A piece of elastic around the top to put head through then no worrying about hands holding towel to stop it falling down you can do all ya need to do, top tip for getting sand off ya body take some talc with you smother over ya body and takes the sand off no porbs. (Female England)
Female, Australia.
I use the towel trick a lot, and have tried the famous Mr Bean beach sketch.
I don't want old pervs looking at me!
Like Camilla, as I have got older I care less of what people see of me, but i don't want to offend anyone. I tend to wear shirts with tails that hide most of my ``bits'', if not I'll do a quick change if no one is looking, or wrap a towel around myself if it is busy, (if the towel will go around me!!)
I wear my swimwear under my clothes get undressed on the beach and dive in, on getting redressed I either use the loo close to the beach if none are available I wrap myself in a towel and struggle to get dressed under it, it's more difficult when wet but can be done. lol
I am female and from England, UK
I'm a male from the US do the same as you except for the fact that I do it at swim meets not a the beach
first i make sure folk are watchin then i strip off while dancing
to the william tell overture.....its a bit cold at port of bello
Female, originally British, living in a hot climate now... I go to the beach wearing my swimsuit under my clothes. I come out of the sea about an hour before leaving the beach so that my swimsuit can dry naturally on my body (I rub myself down hard with a towel to help it along) and then I put my clothes back on over my swimsuit before living the beach.
same as you pretty much. i remember as a kid having to take turns holding two towels round other members of the family so they could change without showing any bits! I am also female from uk.
I try to avoid changing on the beach. But I do have one of those circular towels that goes over your head and then you can do the necessary changes inside it. Female, ukireland howtofalloutoflovewithsomeone
Please say whether you are male and female and where you are from. I am female from the UK.
How do you get changed on the beach?
Female, from the U.K. I take a large towel and wrap it around me and wriggle around, but if it falls away and something shows, I don't stress out about it.
How do you get changed on the beach?
Hi,
i would change into my swim wear in the nearest toilet,
and just put on a t shirt and shorts over the swimwear,
But when changing to go home i would either go and get changed in the toilet or if the swimwear was dry just put my clothes over it.
Being disabled it is easier for me to do it this way.
(Female)
It depends on what I am wearing and where I am going. I try to wear my suit under my clothes and then just take off my clothes and my swim suit is underneath. If we are going someplace before hand then I will bring my suit with me and then change. Either way, when I come out of the water, I take my suit off and change right there on the beach. If I am wearing a two piece or topless, I start with my bottoms, dry quickly and then dress. If it is a one piece then I just take it off, dry quickly and get dressed. I lay my suit out to dry and figure if you don鈥檛 want to see me then don鈥檛 look.
Female in the US.
same as you, female in England :)
i am female and i usually go in to the toilets to get changed.
Male, Thailand. I do the same you do exactly.
Umm..I don't. I go in my bathing suit already on with a coverup over it and leave the same way.
I am too old to bother about what anybody thinks of me, so I would just strip and get on with it and feel sorry for anyone who looks!! I am Scottish, and we don't get the weather to stip off much, but I am surprised a lifeguard would even notice. You mucky sod. xx
I didn't know they had beaches in Ireland ????? Beaches that you would swim at that is !!! Going to be beach I would wear my trunks under my normal clothes, and they I could just take off normal clothes and already have my trunks on. To come off the beach I would have to use a towel or something to change behind, would not just get obviously naked to change. I am a male from USA. Of course if there was some kind of toilet or changing building that would be used, but the nature of your questions presumes that is not an option. With the value of the dollar dropping, may have to consider nude beaches since swiming suits may soon be unaffordable.
male, just do it in front of em, or if ur shy wrap a towel around your waist and just do it iside the towel
wrap a towel around you dry yourself and the put your underwear on then shorts or trousers and then you should be fine
I go to the beach house or change in the truck.
If I'm on holiday, I'll just wear my bikini underneath my clothes and wear a beach dress! That way, all I have to do is whip my dress off - no hassle!
I suppose if my bikini was wet from swimming, I'd just put my beach dress back on and then take the bikini off from underneath my dress with minimum fuss - replacing the bikini with a nice dry strapless bra and nice dry pants!
Some people make life difficult for themselves :-)
xx Emmie
oh, female UK!
It depends on who is about. If I feel I can get away with it (i.e. no too many young kids or leering men!) I just whip the clothes off my bottom half and put on my bottoms, and then take off my top
half, and put on my top. Once a couple of years back when I went to put on my top I found I had forgotten it, so I went topless for a while (I do this regularly when we go to France) and no one seemed bothered, and since then I've never been particularly bothered about people seeing my boobs when I am changing, it makes life a lot easier!
Female from Ireland.
A towel joined end to end. A piece of elastic around the top to put head through then no worrying about hands holding towel to stop it falling down you can do all ya need to do, top tip for getting sand off ya body take some talc with you smother over ya body and takes the sand off no porbs. (Female England)
Female, Australia.
I use the towel trick a lot, and have tried the famous Mr Bean beach sketch.
I don't want old pervs looking at me!
Like Camilla, as I have got older I care less of what people see of me, but i don't want to offend anyone. I tend to wear shirts with tails that hide most of my ``bits'', if not I'll do a quick change if no one is looking, or wrap a towel around myself if it is busy, (if the towel will go around me!!)
I wear my swimwear under my clothes get undressed on the beach and dive in, on getting redressed I either use the loo close to the beach if none are available I wrap myself in a towel and struggle to get dressed under it, it's more difficult when wet but can be done. lol
I am female and from England, UK
I'm a male from the US do the same as you except for the fact that I do it at swim meets not a the beach
first i make sure folk are watchin then i strip off while dancing
to the william tell overture.....its a bit cold at port of bello
Female, originally British, living in a hot climate now... I go to the beach wearing my swimsuit under my clothes. I come out of the sea about an hour before leaving the beach so that my swimsuit can dry naturally on my body (I rub myself down hard with a towel to help it along) and then I put my clothes back on over my swimsuit before living the beach.
same as you pretty much. i remember as a kid having to take turns holding two towels round other members of the family so they could change without showing any bits! I am also female from uk.
I try to avoid changing on the beach. But I do have one of those circular towels that goes over your head and then you can do the necessary changes inside it. Female, uk
Am i being too harsh by withholding sex?
this is a long story... but i really need some input!
My sexual history: wanted to wait til marriage, but was raped @ 17. dated and had sex with someone i was very close with at 18. and now i have sex with my current bf.
His sexual history: grew up around females, like dad was always at work. hes used to not chasing girls AT ALL. they just flock to him. he lost his virginity to some girl when he was like 15 or 16, in a beach changing tent!! they had only dated like a day or two! He has never had a long-term gf. hes had a dozen one-night-stands..... resulting from drinking at a party. he doesnt hit on girls. they take his hand and lead him to a bedroom and hes all for it.
Am i being too harsh by withholding sex?
You need a good psychologist ,you have issues still from your rape.This is not going to go away until you deal with youself first.
and yes he feals down because of your problems....please seak healp...or live him ...he does not deserve this...
Good luck.
Am i being too harsh by withholding sex?
we just bang heads all day long with this arguement. it exhausts me and im sure him too..... but i do have my own to deal with... and it is brining him down. and that ultimately depresses me. i do love him. and he doesnt deserve the emotional rollarcoaster ride ive been sending him on.
you dont have to give it up if you dont want to follow your heart and if he has a problem then he dont deserve you are doing the right thing!
Too answer your main question, Am I being to harsh by withholdinh sex?, the only answer is No...
See a therapist the issues are too complex to be answered here by goodness knows who.
Sounds like your boyfriend is using sex to coerce you into things you dont%26#039; want to do. If you don%26#039;t want to have sex, then don%26#039;t. More than likely he%26#039;ll break up with you, however always remember that if he truly loved you and truly valued you as a person he wouldn%26#039;t force you (by words) into having sex.
okay....hes just saying those **** so he can make you feel bad, you an idoit to give it to him and no one is gonan read all that **** that you wrote its boring and too much crap, just leave him and find a guy who acutally cares about you and sorry you got raped.
I%26#039;m sorry that you were raped but punishing yoru boyfriend for it isn%26#039;t doing anyone any good. If you don%26#039;t address this issue, you stand a good chance of losing your boyfriend and any other man you meet in the future.
It sounds like you should seek some counseling.
People here will not be able to tell you if you should have sex with your bf or not.
Under normal circumstances, I would feel very unloved and hurt too, however, your situation isn%26#039;t normal either.
I would consider both a personal counselor, and a couples counselor.
I wish you well.
%26quot;Your heart is free, have the courage to follow it%26quot;
The man who really loves will not ever pressure you into having sex if you are not comfortable with it. Having sex with someone to keep them happy is not a good reason to be having intercourse. I think you should re-evaluate what makes you think you love this man because it sounds like he%26#039;s only satisfied with what makes him happy. He sounds selfish. While no man will ever understand what you went through, the one that loves you will do everything to make you happy. You deserve to be respected, and it doesn%26#039;t sound like your current boyfriend is capable of treating you with respect. Don%26#039;t let him walk all over you.
if he really loved you he would understand and respect the way you feel, dont give in to him if your not ready then your not ready, if he cant wait give him a roll of toilet paper and send him of to the bathroom, if thats not enough for him then show him the door
if your not ready he should understand that!u r NOT being 2 harsh!
OK one thing first he is mad because you slept with Adam but he doesn%26#039;t say nothing about who he slept with. Kinda sounds like me, me, me, or I%26#039;ll cry. SOunds liek a guy who has no morals for anyone but himself. Love has nothing to do with sex. Your not taking love away just because you not having sex with him. He should respect your feelings and not pressure you since you came out and told him w hat had happened to you. Seems like all he thinks is about himself. amd is so used to just going out with someone and just having sex and nothing about love and emotions toward girls. SO it will probaby best to let him go and move on. Because if he loved you so much why pressure you, kissing and cuddling is good and makes a relationship stronger. SO if this idiot just keeps pressuring you kick him to the curb and find a nice guy who will respect you. Need soemone to chat with just IM or e-mail me anytime.
he needs to understand that you were raped and that is not something to take lightly. He has issues and he needs to understand if he truly cared for you he won%26#039;t pressure you into having sex. A relationship is more than sex, its trust, caring, sharing and respect. I would dump him he only seems interested in having sex, and more sex. He is not use to a relationship with sharing and giving so he needs to learn that its not all about him but the two of you.
Well, honey, If you don%26#039;t want to have sex and you wanna wait til marriage, you have every right to do so. Anyone that pressures you to have sex obviously doesn%26#039;t love like they say they do. It is pretty obvious based on his history that he doesn%26#039;t really know what love is yet. You need to move on and find someone who%26#039;s on the same page as you, and will be willing to wait.
Ok, I don%26#039;t wanna sound harsh but...
WHAT AN ****!.. FRIGGIN DUMB BUTT!!..
Girl, wake up!.. It%26#039;s YOUR body.. YOURS ..not his!
If he%26#039;s soooo in love with you, he%26#039;d wait AND he wouldn%26#039;t make you go through this hell!...
You have to start laying the cards down on the table.
He should show some respect. You were raped!..
you were traumatised.
It%26#039;s 100% normal to wanna have too much sex, or no sex at all.
Some people are just overly horny and some aren%26#039;t.
Yes, we all know.. he IS you%26#039;re boyfriend, and we DO do a lot to make relationships work out... But still.
THIS is different, he really needs to start giving you a break and you have to get your act together. You did a really good thing to talk to him like that that night. AWESOME !!!
I woulda left him already waaaay sooner ..
but hey.. If he keeps it up, let it go.
there are guys just like him out there, that are more patient or that dont focus on sex as much.
you%26#039;re only 19!!.. you have a life ahead of you!.
dont let this ONE GUY make you go through this %26#039;hell%26#039;.. its not fair to you..
If he really wants to %26#039;get something on%26#039; he can go in the other room and masterbate.
Trust me.. there ARE guys out there who would respect you ..
I%26#039;m serious, be careful, take care of yourself!.
you only live once,
Respect yourself and try to do things YOUR way..
its not his body thats being penetrated, its yours.
Oh and also,
Only cause you slept with Adam doesn%26#039;t mean you gotta sleep with this guy if you don%26#039;t want to!..
every relationship is different and different feelings and emotions are provoked.
so .. THAT is something he shouldn%26#039;t be arguing about.
I wish you the best of Luck!
That%26#039;s SO wrong....Girl, I%26#039;m sorry, but if he%26#039;s doing that you have only TWO choices, and NO alternatives:
1. Confront him and really, REALLY explain how you feel about the sitch.
2. Break up with him, but gently. Not %26quot;You%26#039;re such an *!@%@%26amp;*!e.%26quot; What you SHOULD say is %26quot;Lokk, I%26#039;m sorry, but if you%26#039;re going to pressure me into having sex when I%26#039;m clearly uncomfortable/not ready yet, then it%26#039;s time we go our seperate ways. I love you, but I can%26#039;t love someone who only wants to force me into having sex.%26quot;
I understand that it might hurt you emotionally, but it%26#039;s for the best. Trust me. Many guys do that to girls and end up breking up with them soon after anyways because they just wanted bonus points. You can agree or disagree, but I%26#039;m just giving advice. Just remember one thing-No girl should be pressured to have sex when she%26#039;s not ready because many consequences happen in return soon after.
first of all you are not withholding anything! If it doesn%26#039;t feel right to you it isn%26#039;t. He can not and should not MAKE you feel guilty about having sex. If you are always fighting over having sex than that relationship isn%26#039;t worth it and he%26#039;s not worth the trouble it is causing you. you might want to see a therapist to help you deal with the rape issue if you haven%26#039;t already. you also might want to get yourself tested for std%26#039;s if he%26#039;s had as many one night stands as you say he has( it%26#039;s better to be safe than sorry). I wish you all the best of luck.
Well that is a lot, and I%26#039;m sure it%26#039;s not easy going through it. Okay, my answer is thus: While I don%26#039;t think you are being a prude I do think you are being a slight bit unreasonable. The problem is you are giving away your body (and your power) to men because THEY want it. The long and short of it is, it%26#039;s your body, if you don%26#039;t want sex, then don%26#039;t have sex. NO one has the right to take from you what you don%26#039;t want to give. That has already happened to you and I%26#039;m really sorry about it. Understandably you have some serious issues dealing with sex. Your very indecisive about whether to give or not give your bf sex and what I hearing you say is you don%26#039;t like it and really would prefer that you didn%26#039;t have to do it. With that said, you can%26#039;t really expect your bf - or any man - to be in a sexless relationship. What I think you need to do is get some counseling. If you%26#039;ve already been, then go back because you haven%26#039;t yet resolved your issues with intimacy and sex. Again, quite understandable. But you can%26#039;t expect any man to wait forever. Because seriously, even after you are married - and probably especially so - you won%26#039;t want to have sex then either and sexual intimacy is the foundation for marrige in the beginning. For now you should refrain from being in a relationship - especially since your bf won%26#039;t wait - and just work on you. Get yourself together to the point that you can have a healthy relationship, that will include sex (sex is great when you can experience it the right way and because you want and desire the other person - not because you feel obligated to do it). I hope I helped you, good luck.
My sexual history: wanted to wait til marriage, but was raped @ 17. dated and had sex with someone i was very close with at 18. and now i have sex with my current bf.
His sexual history: grew up around females, like dad was always at work. hes used to not chasing girls AT ALL. they just flock to him. he lost his virginity to some girl when he was like 15 or 16, in a beach changing tent!! they had only dated like a day or two! He has never had a long-term gf. hes had a dozen one-night-stands..... resulting from drinking at a party. he doesnt hit on girls. they take his hand and lead him to a bedroom and hes all for it.
Am i being too harsh by withholding sex?
You need a good psychologist ,you have issues still from your rape.This is not going to go away until you deal with youself first.
and yes he feals down because of your problems....please seak healp...or live him ...he does not deserve this...
Good luck.
Am i being too harsh by withholding sex?
we just bang heads all day long with this arguement. it exhausts me and im sure him too..... but i do have my own to deal with... and it is brining him down. and that ultimately depresses me. i do love him. and he doesnt deserve the emotional rollarcoaster ride ive been sending him on.
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you dont have to give it up if you dont want to follow your heart and if he has a problem then he dont deserve you are doing the right thing!
Too answer your main question, Am I being to harsh by withholdinh sex?, the only answer is No...
See a therapist the issues are too complex to be answered here by goodness knows who.
Sounds like your boyfriend is using sex to coerce you into things you dont%26#039; want to do. If you don%26#039;t want to have sex, then don%26#039;t. More than likely he%26#039;ll break up with you, however always remember that if he truly loved you and truly valued you as a person he wouldn%26#039;t force you (by words) into having sex.
okay....hes just saying those **** so he can make you feel bad, you an idoit to give it to him and no one is gonan read all that **** that you wrote its boring and too much crap, just leave him and find a guy who acutally cares about you and sorry you got raped.
I%26#039;m sorry that you were raped but punishing yoru boyfriend for it isn%26#039;t doing anyone any good. If you don%26#039;t address this issue, you stand a good chance of losing your boyfriend and any other man you meet in the future.
It sounds like you should seek some counseling.
People here will not be able to tell you if you should have sex with your bf or not.
Under normal circumstances, I would feel very unloved and hurt too, however, your situation isn%26#039;t normal either.
I would consider both a personal counselor, and a couples counselor.
I wish you well.
%26quot;Your heart is free, have the courage to follow it%26quot;
The man who really loves will not ever pressure you into having sex if you are not comfortable with it. Having sex with someone to keep them happy is not a good reason to be having intercourse. I think you should re-evaluate what makes you think you love this man because it sounds like he%26#039;s only satisfied with what makes him happy. He sounds selfish. While no man will ever understand what you went through, the one that loves you will do everything to make you happy. You deserve to be respected, and it doesn%26#039;t sound like your current boyfriend is capable of treating you with respect. Don%26#039;t let him walk all over you.
if he really loved you he would understand and respect the way you feel, dont give in to him if your not ready then your not ready, if he cant wait give him a roll of toilet paper and send him of to the bathroom, if thats not enough for him then show him the door
if your not ready he should understand that!u r NOT being 2 harsh!
OK one thing first he is mad because you slept with Adam but he doesn%26#039;t say nothing about who he slept with. Kinda sounds like me, me, me, or I%26#039;ll cry. SOunds liek a guy who has no morals for anyone but himself. Love has nothing to do with sex. Your not taking love away just because you not having sex with him. He should respect your feelings and not pressure you since you came out and told him w hat had happened to you. Seems like all he thinks is about himself. amd is so used to just going out with someone and just having sex and nothing about love and emotions toward girls. SO it will probaby best to let him go and move on. Because if he loved you so much why pressure you, kissing and cuddling is good and makes a relationship stronger. SO if this idiot just keeps pressuring you kick him to the curb and find a nice guy who will respect you. Need soemone to chat with just IM or e-mail me anytime.
he needs to understand that you were raped and that is not something to take lightly. He has issues and he needs to understand if he truly cared for you he won%26#039;t pressure you into having sex. A relationship is more than sex, its trust, caring, sharing and respect. I would dump him he only seems interested in having sex, and more sex. He is not use to a relationship with sharing and giving so he needs to learn that its not all about him but the two of you.
Well, honey, If you don%26#039;t want to have sex and you wanna wait til marriage, you have every right to do so. Anyone that pressures you to have sex obviously doesn%26#039;t love like they say they do. It is pretty obvious based on his history that he doesn%26#039;t really know what love is yet. You need to move on and find someone who%26#039;s on the same page as you, and will be willing to wait.
Ok, I don%26#039;t wanna sound harsh but...
WHAT AN ****!.. FRIGGIN DUMB BUTT!!..
Girl, wake up!.. It%26#039;s YOUR body.. YOURS ..not his!
If he%26#039;s soooo in love with you, he%26#039;d wait AND he wouldn%26#039;t make you go through this hell!...
You have to start laying the cards down on the table.
He should show some respect. You were raped!..
you were traumatised.
It%26#039;s 100% normal to wanna have too much sex, or no sex at all.
Some people are just overly horny and some aren%26#039;t.
Yes, we all know.. he IS you%26#039;re boyfriend, and we DO do a lot to make relationships work out... But still.
THIS is different, he really needs to start giving you a break and you have to get your act together. You did a really good thing to talk to him like that that night. AWESOME !!!
I woulda left him already waaaay sooner ..
but hey.. If he keeps it up, let it go.
there are guys just like him out there, that are more patient or that dont focus on sex as much.
you%26#039;re only 19!!.. you have a life ahead of you!.
dont let this ONE GUY make you go through this %26#039;hell%26#039;.. its not fair to you..
If he really wants to %26#039;get something on%26#039; he can go in the other room and masterbate.
Trust me.. there ARE guys out there who would respect you ..
I%26#039;m serious, be careful, take care of yourself!.
you only live once,
Respect yourself and try to do things YOUR way..
its not his body thats being penetrated, its yours.
Oh and also,
Only cause you slept with Adam doesn%26#039;t mean you gotta sleep with this guy if you don%26#039;t want to!..
every relationship is different and different feelings and emotions are provoked.
so .. THAT is something he shouldn%26#039;t be arguing about.
I wish you the best of Luck!
That%26#039;s SO wrong....Girl, I%26#039;m sorry, but if he%26#039;s doing that you have only TWO choices, and NO alternatives:
1. Confront him and really, REALLY explain how you feel about the sitch.
2. Break up with him, but gently. Not %26quot;You%26#039;re such an *!@%@%26amp;*!e.%26quot; What you SHOULD say is %26quot;Lokk, I%26#039;m sorry, but if you%26#039;re going to pressure me into having sex when I%26#039;m clearly uncomfortable/not ready yet, then it%26#039;s time we go our seperate ways. I love you, but I can%26#039;t love someone who only wants to force me into having sex.%26quot;
I understand that it might hurt you emotionally, but it%26#039;s for the best. Trust me. Many guys do that to girls and end up breking up with them soon after anyways because they just wanted bonus points. You can agree or disagree, but I%26#039;m just giving advice. Just remember one thing-No girl should be pressured to have sex when she%26#039;s not ready because many consequences happen in return soon after.
first of all you are not withholding anything! If it doesn%26#039;t feel right to you it isn%26#039;t. He can not and should not MAKE you feel guilty about having sex. If you are always fighting over having sex than that relationship isn%26#039;t worth it and he%26#039;s not worth the trouble it is causing you. you might want to see a therapist to help you deal with the rape issue if you haven%26#039;t already. you also might want to get yourself tested for std%26#039;s if he%26#039;s had as many one night stands as you say he has( it%26#039;s better to be safe than sorry). I wish you all the best of luck.
Well that is a lot, and I%26#039;m sure it%26#039;s not easy going through it. Okay, my answer is thus: While I don%26#039;t think you are being a prude I do think you are being a slight bit unreasonable. The problem is you are giving away your body (and your power) to men because THEY want it. The long and short of it is, it%26#039;s your body, if you don%26#039;t want sex, then don%26#039;t have sex. NO one has the right to take from you what you don%26#039;t want to give. That has already happened to you and I%26#039;m really sorry about it. Understandably you have some serious issues dealing with sex. Your very indecisive about whether to give or not give your bf sex and what I hearing you say is you don%26#039;t like it and really would prefer that you didn%26#039;t have to do it. With that said, you can%26#039;t really expect your bf - or any man - to be in a sexless relationship. What I think you need to do is get some counseling. If you%26#039;ve already been, then go back because you haven%26#039;t yet resolved your issues with intimacy and sex. Again, quite understandable. But you can%26#039;t expect any man to wait forever. Because seriously, even after you are married - and probably especially so - you won%26#039;t want to have sex then either and sexual intimacy is the foundation for marrige in the beginning. For now you should refrain from being in a relationship - especially since your bf won%26#039;t wait - and just work on you. Get yourself together to the point that you can have a healthy relationship, that will include sex (sex is great when you can experience it the right way and because you want and desire the other person - not because you feel obligated to do it). I hope I helped you, good luck.
Due to the current oil spill in the gulf, my family and I are changing vacation plans. Any ideas?
I would like to take my family on vacation in a beach location. My wife and I have a 4 year old and a 2 year old that we will be bringing with us. Great family accommodations a must. Great golf a plus. I would really like to give them a great vacation and the oil spill in the gulf scares me. Any suggestions would be appreciated.
Due to the current oil spill in the gulf, my family and I are changing vacation plans. Any ideas?
San Diego - especially for the great golf opportunities. It's got a terrific climate and a huge number of tourist activities. you could also go to one of the East Coast beaches in Florida, Virginia Beach (and visit Williamsburg while you're there) or Myrtle Beach - another golfing Mecca.
Due to the current oil spill in the gulf, my family and I are changing vacation plans. Any ideas?
I don't know what your original plans were, or when you plan to vacation. But if you're leaving immediately, Panama City in Florida might still be safe. But it won't be for long, I'm afraid. Tar balls are already washing up in Pensacola beach, and the oil slick is projected to head eastward.
You could try some of the beaches on the east coast of Florida. Or if you plan to leave very soon, most of the western part of the Florida peninsula should be safe for the next few weeks. You may just want to avoid any part of the Florida panhandle in the upcoming days.
I have heard that Galveston, TX and South Padre Island are nice beach locations, but I've never visited. You could also try any of the eastern seaboard beaches. They'll be safe from the oil for many months. Virginia Beach, Daytona Beach, etc. are still very safe from the oil. You could also try the beaches of North Carolina. I here they're very nice. And if you are planning a long vacation that includes driving, you could drive from the North Carolina beaches to the Great Smokies for some mountain sightseeing in a few hours.
Perhaps you can still go to Florida but to the ocean side instead?
I'm a Florida Gulf Coast person myself, but I'm sure the beaches from Miami up to Jacksonville are just as lovely. And I bet the kids would love it if you made a stop in at Orlando (Disney/Universal Studios)! We usually get some super low airfares flying into the smaller Orlando Sanford airport.
I'm sure the Florida Department of Tourism would love it if you could visit Florida during this oil spill crisis.
Lake Tahoe! There is plenty for the whole family to do, and you'll be safe from the oil!
Tons of golf courses - http://www.gotahoenorth.com/events-and-a鈥?/a>
Plus Beaches, Biking, Hiking, Water Sports, Spas, Camping, Fishing, Horseback Riding, Tennis, Swimming Pools, Art Classes, Ropes Courses, Climbing Walls %26amp; Trapeze Lessons, Outdoor Movies/Concerts, Playgrounds and WAY more! One of my favorite vacation spots that's got it all!
Have a blast!
Due to the current oil spill in the gulf, my family and I are changing vacation plans. Any ideas?
San Diego - especially for the great golf opportunities. It's got a terrific climate and a huge number of tourist activities. you could also go to one of the East Coast beaches in Florida, Virginia Beach (and visit Williamsburg while you're there) or Myrtle Beach - another golfing Mecca.
Due to the current oil spill in the gulf, my family and I are changing vacation plans. Any ideas?
I don't know what your original plans were, or when you plan to vacation. But if you're leaving immediately, Panama City in Florida might still be safe. But it won't be for long, I'm afraid. Tar balls are already washing up in Pensacola beach, and the oil slick is projected to head eastward.
You could try some of the beaches on the east coast of Florida. Or if you plan to leave very soon, most of the western part of the Florida peninsula should be safe for the next few weeks. You may just want to avoid any part of the Florida panhandle in the upcoming days.
I have heard that Galveston, TX and South Padre Island are nice beach locations, but I've never visited. You could also try any of the eastern seaboard beaches. They'll be safe from the oil for many months. Virginia Beach, Daytona Beach, etc. are still very safe from the oil. You could also try the beaches of North Carolina. I here they're very nice. And if you are planning a long vacation that includes driving, you could drive from the North Carolina beaches to the Great Smokies for some mountain sightseeing in a few hours.
Perhaps you can still go to Florida but to the ocean side instead?
I'm a Florida Gulf Coast person myself, but I'm sure the beaches from Miami up to Jacksonville are just as lovely. And I bet the kids would love it if you made a stop in at Orlando (Disney/Universal Studios)! We usually get some super low airfares flying into the smaller Orlando Sanford airport.
I'm sure the Florida Department of Tourism would love it if you could visit Florida during this oil spill crisis.
Lake Tahoe! There is plenty for the whole family to do, and you'll be safe from the oil!
Tons of golf courses - http://www.gotahoenorth.com/events-and-a鈥?/a>
Plus Beaches, Biking, Hiking, Water Sports, Spas, Camping, Fishing, Horseback Riding, Tennis, Swimming Pools, Art Classes, Ropes Courses, Climbing Walls %26amp; Trapeze Lessons, Outdoor Movies/Concerts, Playgrounds and WAY more! One of my favorite vacation spots that's got it all!
Have a blast!
What do I do with my belongings at Cocoa Beach?
I'm going to Cocoa Beach soon. I'm going with a group on a bus and we're going shopping on the pier after. What do most people do with belongings such as money, phone, change of clothes while their hanging on the beach?
What do I do with my belongings at Cocoa Beach?
Someone should be staying with the stuff at all times, because people can get robbed of really important things if they're not careful. You can try to hide it, or put it in a place where you can see and keep an eye on it, but your best bet is to have someone with the bags. A lot of times there are people who want to tan, so that could work out to your advantage. If there's no one like that, take turns.
What do I do with my belongings at Cocoa Beach?
some of you will have to watch the stuff while others go into the water. lots of people get robbed because they don't watch their stuff well enough.
go wendy ! i put my stuff in sand proof bags , and bring a tiny shovel and dig a nice hole and put my stuff in there and put a towel over it kind of like in shawshank , where tim robbins used the pickaxe and put it in the hole when he was done and put the poster over it .
What do I do with my belongings at Cocoa Beach?
Someone should be staying with the stuff at all times, because people can get robbed of really important things if they're not careful. You can try to hide it, or put it in a place where you can see and keep an eye on it, but your best bet is to have someone with the bags. A lot of times there are people who want to tan, so that could work out to your advantage. If there's no one like that, take turns.
What do I do with my belongings at Cocoa Beach?
some of you will have to watch the stuff while others go into the water. lots of people get robbed because they don't watch their stuff well enough.
go wendy ! i put my stuff in sand proof bags , and bring a tiny shovel and dig a nice hole and put my stuff in there and put a towel over it kind of like in shawshank , where tim robbins used the pickaxe and put it in the hole when he was done and put the poster over it .
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